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What am i suposed to do when my boyfriend goes to college? my boyfriend starts college in a week, no big deal i will see him every weekend, but i know im going to be bored out of my mind when he's gone.. and i think it will be harder to not party when im just sitting at home with nothing to do. any ideas of what to do so i dont mess anything up? i wouldn't hurt him or anything but, i know he expects me to stay away from things that could **** up the relationship... | | Blow him before he leaves. He WILL cheat on you. | Girlfriend going off to college? Has anyone been in a situation where your gf has gone off to college? My girl is going about an hour and a half drive..I hear all the stories of how she will find a smarter guy or just find another guy in general, or **** a guy while drunk and cheat. It has all worried me, what should I do? We have been on and off for a year but have been consitently dating for about 6 months and yes I do love this girl and she is the best **** ever for me.
Should I just live my life and wonder if she is ******* at a drunk college party? she will be at a dorm..what are the chances of this working?..I won't be able to come see her much, she wants me to move out there but thats is far-fetched at best..
I just gave her a ring too(nothing fancy but still)..I want this to work but I have my doubts
I am 21 and she is 17 will be 18, we love eachother and have trust issues that we are working out | | Lose the jealousy and trust her. Don't control her, don't suffocate her. If she's a decent person, there's a good chance she will not cheat. | **** Today!!!Can You All Do Something? Can I get a hug or words of encouragement. Today, blew. So, from word of mouth tonight was the bet college party of the year and I spent it doing my 8 page research paper and studying for my exam. Not, to mention it was could as hell today and aside from feeling bored there is a lack of research in my area and the test is seemingly hard.
I then got a text from back home and now lets just say I am having second thoughts as too why I left the Eastern seaboard. Tomorrow seems, like it's going to suck also and this week is looking bad. What can I do to get out of this negativity and ya words of encouragement and a hug are appreciated right about now. | (((((ANTHONY E. M.))))))
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OK. The really good thing about struggling is that you learn that you CAN get through difficulties, and you learn HOW, and you learn to appreciate BALANCE in all things. It also helps you to focus on priorities.
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It will get easier soon.
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This helps in school: "Don't let the perfect crowd out the good".
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Take an hour or so away from worrying, and you'll do better work if you relax just a little. It's late here, and sleep is necessary to do good work.
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Good luck, I feel everything will be much better for you soon. | I am having a hard time deciding what life I want to lead during college...? I have a really good GPA and I work 5 days a week. This is costing me a social life, and I have been doing it since the beginning of the school year. Every time I think about how unhappy I am, I just want to say "**** it" and make more friends, party, get girls for once etc etc. But in the back of my mind, I keep saying what I'm doing is worth it, and in the end, I will appreciate the scholarly path more than he party one. My roommate (whom I abhor) was the most goody two-shoes guy ever before college, and now he is just partying and seemingly having fun, and in short, I'm jealous. I feel like I either need to go all out, or remain in a shell until graduation. Does anyone know where I'm coming from??? What do you all think about this? | | Do what's more important. You'll have time to party later in life. You need to work to live and you need an education to live a good life later on. But do give yourself a day or so every now and then to go do something fun with friends and what not. Everyone needs a day to have fun and relax every now and then. | Should I stay or should I go? College relationships.? I'm not even really sure where to begin. Basically, I was dating this guy for about a month. But I've known him for years and he's one of my really good friends. He's such a sweetheart and a really good person, but at times he can be a little ... well ... dumb. He doesn't do dumb things that hurt me, he just isn't the brightest bulb in the box.
So, we dated for a month, our whole entire winter break. It was amazing, so much fun. We really bonded, hung out, partied, hooked up, fooled around. The only thing was that I had promised myself I wouldn't lose my virginity to him if it was exclusive while he was away at college too, which he was more understanding about than I had expected. (He goes to school 3 hours away, and I stay home and commute to my college.) (And guys, don't worry I didn't deprive him of anything else.) So the night before he left I asked him what we were doing, and he honestly looked me in the eye and said "I really don't know, can we talk about this tomorrow?" I was a little ticked off but didn't let it get to me so I left it. Then I went back to school and it was very busy for the both of us so I didn't get talking to him until last night. Which was only a day after he said we would, no big deal.
He told me he didn't want to tell me we're not hooking up with other people and then **** it up drunkenly at a party one night or something. But that the bottom line is I'm the only girl he has feelings for he just doesn't know if he's ready to commit to something while he's away at college. I argued with the fact that if he really felt the way he says he feels for me he'd want to make it work. When I told him I maybe wanted to just spare myself this situation, he freaked out a little. He told me the last thing he wants to do is hurt me and that he really likes me and doesn't know what to do.
Do I deal with the fact that he could possibly do things with girls at school? Or do I spare myself this stress and heartache and cut all my losses? I've already been introduced to his family and even some college friends. I feel like I'm stuck, and I don't know what to do.
Please just some serious honest answers. I'm honestly torn about this, and reading a bunch of asshole remarks is not going to make me feel any better. Thanks for the help. | if two people aren't going to go to the same college, it'll be a lot harder to keep the relationship going. the thing is, it doesn't matter if he loves you or not, he's still going to get tempted. whether he has the willpower to say no, i don't know, but most guys don't. i know it's really hard on you, but you have to know that at the same time you'll be meeting new people, and you would also feel suppressed in your current relationship.
these things just don't work out. either try to work it out by making it an open relationship, or accept that you two must go your separate ways.
after several months, you'll get over him. there are many other fish in the sea. just don't let him distract you from your studies. :) | Why do people change when they go to college(bad way not good)? College does WONDERS i agree. I did change when i went, i changed into a better, more social person but thats not what i'm talking about. Im talking about why do people see the NEED to party all the time, and make mistakes ectect.
I'm saying this in regards of me loosing my gf of yearsss to this, she went to GRAD school, meaning she was in college for 4 years already, but then when she moved to grad school thats all she tends to do.
I myself, have gone though 6yrs of college, and i am graduating in 1 semester. BUT i never got into 'partying' i did drink when others do but never felt the NEED to party.
Is it because of stress? If so, why would you **** up the one who loved you the most? Where you still consider him your closest friend. Oh she didnt cheat on me like all other girls have before her, she just up and left me overnight no reason behind it. | because people change. that is the way it is. move on....
i'm sorry | Theres a Question About College? Hey in the movie College. Theres a song when theyre partying and it goes something lik this... "all the boys and girls, make some noise" Does anyone know who the **** it is??? Its drivin me crazy! | | come on feel the noise by quiet riot maybe?? | Met girl at party, what should I do now? I'm a sophomore guy in college. Now. I'll start by saying that I'm not at all the type of guy to pick up girls at parties (actually never have), so I'm way out of my element here. But anyway, I was at a house party on Friday night, and this girl randomly decided to start talking to me, and quickly made it very apparent that she really wanted to **** me. I stupidly didn't do anything about it that night, but she ended up spontaneously giving me her number when I left. So the next night, I was at another party, and decided to text her around 1 am seeing what she was up to (last party we both stayed til like 4). No response. Called a bit later, no answer. So what does that mean, and how should I continue? Would it be a mistake to call her today? | | dude you pass up the opportunity you should take a full advantage and you text it at the wrong time you should try it during the day if no answer then forget about it | Im starting a party, but im not sure whats gonna happen? My parents are leavin for a week out of the house, im 19..
So you got 5 girls and 5 dudes, a lot of beer...But forget about the beer. concentrate on the situation. Im bringing 2 groups of the opposite sex together, they have never met each other. IS this situation gonna be awkward? Victor and his freinds graduated from high school this year so he is a fresh first year college student. these girls are gonna be seniors in highschool.
What is gonna happen!?!?
IS a **** fest gonna start?
IS a big orgy gonna happen? becuase i think it is. us guys are gonna get horny over the girls definatly, and the girls to the guys. just becuase we never met each other.
this is how i wana start this party, is this a bad or good idea?
or is everyone gonna stay quiet and awkward and **** cuz no one knows each other!?
and alcohol will not loosen anyone up...it will make **** worse..i just feel like its gonna be girls on 1 side dudes onhe other side of the room. | | assuming the girls arent major hookers then there wont be an orgy ok so stop dreaming BUT when i was 19 and it was 6 girls and 6 boys we played the game with those dice....ya know the dice that have like body parts on one and then "lick, taste, tease, touch, etc." on the other. we sat boy girl boy girl and took turns rolling the dice....whatever it landed on you had to do that to the person on your right (like it might land on "touch" and "boob" so then the person had to do that to the person on their right) then after a couple of turns we would switch places or change the rotation (so you wouldnt do the same thing to the same person) BUT if you happen to be sitting next to a person that you just dont wanna do some things too you had the option to take a shot instead (or in your case they would chug a beer) it was super fun and got everyone pretty loose and talking....it didnt end in an orgy but there was def some connects made that might have led to sex later.....good luck!!! | What to do with this college roommate? I'm in a new town for college, dont know anyone other than my roomate on whom i just meet on the day that i moved in. He talks about xbox all the time and plays 24/7 all the time. i leave to go home on the weekends and this ******* pig threw a party in the house. (i dont mind the party) it would be nice that he told me so since im new, i could meet some people. People just come and go in the house, taking the food, sleeping on the couch and im like "who the **** are you". The guy talks **** all the time but never does it. Never wants to get out, (like fitness, food, movies but only with his friends) he only plays xbox, never includes me in anything, only if i ask him. I talk more than his friends talk. So what should i do,,,,, just forget the guy and do my own thing? im leaning more, on doing my own thing. | Do your own thing. Join some clubs/activities/intramural sports, and really participate in them. You'll meet people around these common interests, and form friendships. If you're into fitness, then work out in the gym on campus (if there is one) - and there again, you'll start to meet people.
You need to talk to your roommate to set up certain rules so that the living environment is all right for *both* of you. Rules around things like cleaning up, taking your food, etc. are totally reasonable. But you may never truly be friends with this guy - and so be it. You'll make friendships elsewhere. |
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